Ponderize, Week 3

Ponderize, Week 4: "The Spirit of God hath made me, and the breath of the Almighty hath given me life." Job 3:4

Wednesday, September 9, 2015

4th of July in Redwood City

Paul's sister and her family recently moved back to the good ol' U.S. of A.  They were staying with Paul's parents over the 4th of July and we couldn't think of anyone we'd rather spend the holiday with.  It was a weekend to be remembered and one I'd like to repeat every weekend if it were possible.  Thomas and Angela came too and Paul's cousin was staying with John and Trudy for the summer.  It was a full house (16 people in all!), but I'm glad that we were all able to be together.  I was surprised and delighted at how well Parker and Elizabeth played together.  It's so fun seeing cousins get along so well.

John picked us up from the airport.  Parker loves his grandpa!


The grandkids having breakfast together:


We went on a train ride through the mountains to the Santa Cruz boardwalk.  The train station is located in a re-created mining town.  I'm sure we could have wandered around here for hours if we'd wanted to.






The scenery was beautiful- it was so green and lush and we saw trees that were thousands of years old!



Kate had mixed emotions; the whistle was a little too loud for her, but everyone else enjoyed the ride.










Santa Cruz was buzzing with people.  It was a great day to be at the beach!










And what's a stop at the boardwalk without an ice cream cone?  Except not for Parker.  He didn't want one with chocolate, which I can certainly sympathize with.  The chocolate sure didn't stop Kate.





This carousel ride almost made us miss our ride back up the mountain!  But I'm glad we went on it and I'm even more glad they held the train for us!


On the 4th we went to Half Moon Bay.  John loaded up the dune buggy with his small friends and they all got to be in the parade.  


The rest of us had great seats and watched from the sidelines.

Parker and Kate still love these shirts and wear them probably once a week. 

Some of Paul's friends joined us for a barbecue that evening.

Paul made ribs in John and Trudy's amaaaaaazing new kitchen.


The kids help decorate the American flag jello.



Sunday was the last day we were there and I think by this point Parker had just had too much fun.  He wanted to stand by his "best friend Elizabeth," but as Paul likes to sing during tantrums, "you can't always git whatcha wah-waaant."

We missed having Peter and Amber there!  Hopefully our next big party at the Fjeldsted resort will require a tent in the backyard!

Sunday, September 6, 2015

Kate's Birthday

It's hard to believe that Kate is two years old.  She truly is a joy... most of the time.  I feel like she's been suuuuch an easy baby, but I'm slowly having to accept the fact that she's hit her terrible twos.  It's nothing out of the norm I'm sure, but she is really craving independence.  She MUST buckle her own seat belt (even though she can't even do it, she has to make the attempt for at least three minutes before she'll let me help her), she MUST get her own utensil out of the drawer, she MUST get out of the car by herself, she MUST choose the diaper she wants to wear, etc.  These things aren't a big deal until we're in a hurry and then things so south quick.  She has really perfected the dead fish crumple to the ground.

In most other areas, she's wonderful.   Often times I won't know that she's woken up in the morning or from her nap unless I check the video monitor.  When she wakes up, she just quietly plays in her bed... on a few occasions when I've been sick she's done this for HOURS.

She is quick to apologize if she's hurt someone.  Saw-wee, Mama.

For a few weeks the threat of time-out worked like a charm.  All I'd have to do was say, "Do you want to go to time-out?" and immediately she would stop doing whatever naughty thing she was doing.  I need to find a new tactic because now when I ask she says "yes" and happily walks herself to timeout.

She eats like a champion.  The other night she asked for seconds of asparagus.  She eats raw onions.  She loves broccoli.  And hummus.  And lots of other things that make me scratch my head and wonder where we went wrong with Parker.

Here she is on her birthday eating all of her dinner:


And Parker eating none of his.  But I love this picture of him- he looks like such a young man!


She and Parker play really well together.  Sometimes Parker gets really antsy waiting for her to wake up from her nap so that they can play again.

She has no problem being left with a sitter.  The ladies in nursery are always telling me how laid back she is, though they note that she's not a push-over either.  She'll get in someone's face if they take a toy from her.

When she knows she's doing something naughty she'll start to growl.  It's often what gives her away if I'm not paying attention.

She really likes babies.  (Dolls and human.)

Have you ever seen the show "The Middle" with Patricia Heaton?  I think it's so funny, but most of the people I ask about it don't seem to care for it.  I think maybe it's a mom show that can't really be appreciated until you find yourself in Frankie Heck's shoes: trying to do the best you can with your kids, but constantly feeling like you fall short, while simultaneously loving them to pieces and thinking they're annoying.  Frankie's youngest son is kind of a weirdo and one of the things he does is whisper to himself the last word said by the person he's talking to.  Kate does this! She whispers all the time and people ask me about it a lot.  I find it to be endearing and hilarious and I hope she keeps it up for a long time.

She loves to color.  Because Parker didn't show an interest in it until about six months ago, I didn't know kids this young enjoy coloring.  I love that she's discovered a quiet activity, but hate the mess that goes along with it.  I bought a bunch of the Color Wonder pages, but occasionally she refuses them.  I think sometimes it's not just an unfortunate accident, but she actually wants to color on herself and her clothes and the walls.

She loves being tickled.

She says hi to almost everyone she sees- even if they can't hear or see her.  (Like if it's someone walking through the cross walk while we're at a red light.)

On her birthday we had our friends from down the street over for cake and ice cream.  



Kate got a lot of wonderful gifts for her birthday, but maybe the best was that Grandma Trudy came to visit us for her special day.



 


We love our Kate!  Parker has to keep reminding me to not call her "Babe" or "Baby" anymore because obviously, she's a big girl now.  Sad, but true.

Wednesday, August 12, 2015

Sandcastle Competition

Every year in Imperial Beach a world-class sandcastle competition is held.  People come from all over southern California and it's usually packed.  This year, however, there was a thunderstorm that morning and, not knowing how long it would last, many people who would have to travel long distances were deterred from venturing to the beach.  Lucky for us, it's our closest beach and when we got there the rain had let up and it was a beautiful day.

For the most part Parker and Kate were too enthralled in the giant sandcastles to pose for a picture, but I was able to snap a couple.




Sunday, August 9, 2015

Fire Station Tour

Parker's preschool ended in May, but the moms decided that those precious few preschool hours each week were too good to give up, so we decided to do a preschool co-op over the summer.  Here in Mexico, North, we have year-round school, so the summer was only seven weeks long.  We decided to do it just one day a week (Tuesday) for three hours.  There were five moms that participated and we each took one Tuesday to host.  The remaining Tuesdays we went on a fire station tour and had an end of preschool party in the park.  

On my hosting day we learned about the letter P.  We learned about penguins, did a pumpkin craft, practiced patterns, did P.E., and ate pudding and popcorn.  


Here they are practicing making the letter P out of play dough, paper clips, pretzels and poofs.


The kids loved the fire station and the firemen did an amazing job with the kids. 








Monday, August 3, 2015

Appointment #9: The Biopsy

Not a very fun experience.  Even today (two and a half weeks later) my boobs are still a sickly green color from the bruising.  I won't to go into all the details of the drilling and coring, but I will say that lidocaine has a prominent position on my Things Most Loved list.

What they biopsied was a benign adenosis.  In adenosis the little sacs that make breast milk are enlarged and/or there are more than normal.  The radiologist that performed the surgery said it's nothing to worry about, so we're all done with these appointments for now.  Yay!